Learn to recognize domestic violence

On Behalf of | Feb 17, 2022 | Divorce |

Divorce due to domestic violence is a sad reality in many homes. When a person in a relationship or marriage loses their temper and physically or psychologically tries to gain control of their partner, that is domestic violence.

Domestic violence knows no age limit. Young children, older adults, and everyone in between can become victims. It affects people in both heterosexual and same-sex relationships.

The 5 types of domestic violence

Learning to recognize the different types of domestic violence is crucial to surviving.

  1. Physical abuse is what most folks think of when they hear the words “domestic violence.” This runs the gamut from slapping and kicking to biting and stabbing. Sexual violence also falls into this category.
  2. Emotional abuse can be harder to identify. Any time your partner gaslights you by trying to distort your view of reality, that is domestic violence.
  3. Stalking is a terrifying ordeal. It is an extreme version of emotional and psychological abuse. Victims may have trouble sleeping, functioning in society, or coping with the constant negative attention.
  4. Financial abuse is any attempt made by your partner to control your financial freedom. They may cut off your spending accounts or empty your savings.
  5. Isolation happens when your partner keeps you from seeing family and friends. They want you all to themself so that they may control you.

Being a victim of domestic violence can be terrifying and should not be tolerated. It’s very important to seek outside help from the police, a trusted friend or family member, and a support group.

Once you are physically removed from the danger, you can begin to pick up the pieces. This may include bringing your partner up on charges of domestic abuse and filing for divorce. Seeking legal guidance will help you get through this very difficult time.